.
Feedback

Newtown Honors Memorial Day

There are soldiers who have sacrificed, if not their lives, their former youthful lives. Men who used to die on the battlefield now survive, but extremely disabled.

 

I gave a speech a few years ago and Veterans in the audience al thanked me for putting into words exactly how they feel.-  

             There have been many thousands who have paid the ultimate sacrifice for our country. They are buried in graves both here and overseas. However, there are currently hundreds of soldiers who have sacrificed, if not their lives, their former youthful lives. With advancements in modern medicine, many men who used to die on the battlefield now survive, some with almost unspeakable disabilities.

             Unknown to most Americans, the U.S. government gives a one-time-only grant of less than $64,000 to a soldier and his or her family to make their home handicap accessible, no matter how severe the soldier’s wounds are.  Men who are totally paralyzed from the neck down, or are blind and missing multiple limbs (at least two men lost all four limbs) are returning home.  $64,000 doesn’t begin to cover the cost of converting a home to accommodate these types of disabilities.

             A need to help those soldiers inspired John Gonsalves, a civilian, to start “Homes For Our Troops”, a non-profit that builds entire handicapped houses at no cost to the soldiers.

             The houses Gonsalves builds are custom-made for each individual soldier.  For the men who are paralyzed, or who have lost multiple limbs, or are severely brain damaged, HFOT installs hoists to lift them in and out of tubs and holds them there safely while they’re bathed. A Japanese toilet that cleans and dries you is also installed, so the men get back of their dignity and privacy. A smart computer is installed to unlock doors and turn on lights for the men with no arms.

             Homes for Our Troops has, in turn, inspired me to raise funds for them as a volunteer. I have organized a Beautiful Baby Photo Contest in which the public casts votes in the form of dollar bills or checks for their favorite baby.  100% of the ten dollar entry fee and all vote money goes to HFOT.  The winning child rides in a chauffer-driven convertible supplied by Mercedes of Danbury in the Newtown Labor Day Parade. I am hoping the contest can go statewide. 

I will be appearing on the Better Connecticut television show on Wednesday, June 6th, to spread the word and promote this friendly competition. It would be wonderful if the Beautiful Baby fundraiser can go national and do for HFOT what Relay for Life has done for the American Cancer Society.

            There will also be a silent auction at the Sports Authority’s Danbury store during July. The Joe Namath Football Camp at WestConn has donated an autographed football. Danbury oral surgeon Dr. Marshall Kurtz has donated two of his Yankee season tickets, which are right behind the visitor’s dugout for the auction.

  If you also have season tickets or items that you would like to donate for the Sports Authority Silent Auction, or if you would like to make a monetary donation please contact me at the address or email below. In addition, if you would like to host a fundraiser, I would be happy to guide you.

 To enter a child (newborn to four years) in the Beautiful Baby Photo Contest, send a ten dollar check, made payable to ‘Homes for Our Troops’ and a non-returnable 4” x 4” or wallet sized photo with the baby’s name and contact phone number written on the back to:  Beautiful Baby;  C/O Lois Barber; 33 Zoar Road;  Sandy Hook, CT 06482. You may also contact me through my email at babycontest2010@gmail.com

 The end of the year holidays are not the only time we Americans should give to charity.  Every Memorial Day, we should take a moment of silence before eating our barbequed steak, and give generously to those who have given everything to us.  Please help me get one more soldier off the waiting list for one of these houses.

Newsletter & Alerts

Get the best stories each day and important breaking news

Subscribe

Not from Newtown Patch? Find your Local Patch »

Loading comments ...
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors. Write a new post... What's up? Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell something
Lois Imbriano Barber May 25, 2013 at 09:27 am
call Lois Barber 203 270-8017 to enter. The entry fee is a $10 check made payable to the NewtownRead More PBA (Police Benevolent Association)
Lois Imbriano Barber May 25, 2013 at 09:26 am
I still have spots available for you to post a photo of your child (newborn - 4 years) on my votingRead More booth. This is a charitable fundraiser and 100% of the money raised from this year's contest goes to Newtown's First Responders and the My Sandy Hook Family Fund - the only charity that is giving every penny it collects to the 26 families who lost loved ones.
G May 25, 2013 at 09:34 pm
Rick - MAC gets his "news" and forms his "opinions" from Fox News, RushRead More Limbaugh, Newsmax, et al. His "opinions" are just a regurgitation of their opinions. Fox News has readily admitted in court that they lie, so they are not a real "news" organization - apparently they have the first amendment right to lie while posing as a news organization ... http://www.librarygrape.com/2009/06/court-fox-news-has-first-amendment.html#.UaFlKdi1vkc
Rick May 25, 2013 at 06:50 pm
Mac, Newsmax is not a valid source for news stories. It is an opinion web site, biased very stronglyRead More in one direction: conservatism. As for the facts, you have none. Just conjecture. There is no evidence that Obama knew anything about the Benghazi incident before it happened, there is no statement or evidence that Obama condones or even knew about the IRS tactics - and to call them "thugish" is just plain name calling. It was questioning and investigating - as they can and should do, just with a SLIGHT bias towards Tea Party groups (70 out of hundreds). So get your facts straight, stop the name calling and get over the presidential hatred. I'd like to hear your opinion about lying about weapons of mass destruction to get us into an illegal war in Iraq, or even your opinion of the Iran-Contra scandal - unless of course you believe it is only Democrats that are worthy of criticism.
MAC May 25, 2013 at 01:19 am
G, apparently you did not watch the Benghazi hearings recently on CSpan. I did, and the whistleRead More blowers made it abundantly clear that there was never any question that it was an "ATTACK" by terrorists, and had NOTHING to do with a "demonstration" over a lame video, as lied about by S. Rice, Obama and HRC! They concocted this story because the truth, that Al Qaeda is NOT "defeated" or neutralized, as O claimed, would have been inconvenient for the election. It is utterly reprehensible for a president to heartlessly leave our men behind, to send NO aid or support, if only to get the bodies out--and under other presidents and the military as it has always been--you "DON'T leave your fellow soldiers (or diplomats) behind!" O gave (or assented to) TWO orders to "Stand Down" and NOT fly in with aid from Tripoli or Sicily! And G, what is your opinion of a president who condones the TARGETING of conservatives, with thuggish, illegal tactics of INTIMIDATION by the IRS!?
Announcements  

0   Recommend Kurt Kling