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Throughout Newtown, Signs of Grief and Loss

Handmade memorial sprout up throughout the community; Newtown Convenience installs trees to recall victims.

 

Shaelja Patel was just putting up the sign Tuesday afternoon, but the trees had already been there for two days.

Her handmade message—"In Loving Memory of the Sandy Hook Victims"—is inked on poster board along Church Hill Road in Sandy Hook.

Next to Patel's sign are 26 small Christmas trees—one for each of the lives lost in last Friday's Sandy Hook Elementary School massacre, where 20 children and six adults were killed by a lone gunman.

"The trees with blue lights are for the boys, and the pink lights are for the girls," Patel explained on the bleary Tuesday afternoon, as the nearby was winding down. "The black and red trees are for the adults."

"All the kids' trees have an angel on top," she added.

Patel's father owns Newtown Convenience and Deli on Church Hill Road, and installed the trees Sunday as a makeshift memorial.

It is one of many. Even motorists who pass through the region briefly on I-84 can glimpse the community's suffering; wreathes hang on exit signs along the roadway, and memorial banners are draped from highway overpasses.

In Sandy Hook, flags fly at half mast and churches like Trinity Episcopal have opened their doors for any and all to pray. Local businesses like Joshua E. Baum Orthodontics have pasted up missives similar to Patel's.

"We Cry and Weep With You," a banner reads.

Links to information, coverage for Patch readers:

  • How to Help Families Affected by Newtown School Shooting
  • How You Can Help: Memorial Donations For Sandy Hook Victims
  • Newtown Pics & Clips
  • Sandy Hook Victims Remembered: 'They Didn't Deserve Any of This'
  • Dear Santa: Send Love to Newtown
  • Newtown School Shootings: News Hub

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Lois Imbriano Barber May 18, 2013 at 08:24 pm
To further support my support of Aurelia, the letter above states it was the New York Post thatRead More wanted the details. Good for you town clerk! I goggled the Connecticut Council on Freedom of Information and they are indeed nothing more than a non-profit group. They are not a government agency. And an inept one - their own website is a mess. What clowns.- http://ctcouncilfoi.org/
Jeff May 18, 2013 at 02:50 pm
Town Clerk Aurelia is already causing the town to needlessly spend money defending her derelictionRead More of duty: "An attorney representing the town, with the law firm Cohen and Wolf, issued an opinion in response to the, (New York), Post's request stating that the public is only allowed to view death and marriage certificates that are "at least one hundred years old." Cost aside she is pushing for a state law that would restrict access to a minors birth certificate for 6 months, she originally wanted them sealed for 10 years. The only thing the proposed law is going to accomplish is the healing that has been accomplished is going to be undone when the seal expires. This is much ado about nothing. http://www.newstimes.com/local/article/Newtown-officials-withhold-death-certificates-4526713.php
Jeff May 18, 2013 at 02:07 pm
While I have no desire to view any of these death certificates, the law is the law. I have neverRead More viewed a death certificate, I doubt there is anything listed beyond the name of the decedent, dates of birth & death, parentage, and cause of death. Town Clerk Aurelia is clearly in violation of her oath of office. Her job is not to be administered based on feelings. In doing this she is opening the town up to F.O.I. violations, potential litigation, and fanning the flames of the crazy conspiracy theories. To quote the article, "we feel its an extreme invasion of privacy for these families." Should someone take this to F.O.I. or put it before a judge the town will lose. Do your job as required by statute.